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Tuesday
Jun142011

We have us some Winners!

First, my apologies for the delayed post on our ebook contest from last week's Carving Our Own Destiny Week. A yucky cold is kicking my butt currently and I have been curled in the fetal position in my bed, but I am here now to announce our WINNERS!

If you missed any of the posts, please head over to the designated page where you will find TONS of articles covering just about every aspect on "non-traditional" publishing you can think of. Thank you to everyone who came by, commented, tweeted, and told your friends. We had a great turn out and I hope everyone who stopped by left feeling a little more comfortable with the many options we now have as writers.

A special shout out to all our guest authors and teachers. You were a blessing to us all!

Now let's get to the good stuff! I will be emailing the winners this week but if you see your name below, please feel free to email me at TheEndingUnplanned (at) gmail (dot) com, and I will send you your prize!!

Courtney Cole's EVERY LAST KISS
Winner: Daree
Michelle Leighton's BLOOD LIKE POISON

Winner: Ninja Girl

Keira Lea's REPLAY
Winner: Aurora
Jenna Kay's CLARITY and bookmarks!
Winner: Vivien

CONGRATULATIONS to all our winners!

Friday
Jun102011

Overcoming Writer's Block (Tamara Mousner)

Writer's Block. We've all been there, done that. It affects us all. But we don't have to let it get us down or trap us. I love reading other writer's suggestions for getting over the hump of being stuck, and I think you'll enjoy this post from TR Mousner, too!

Ms. Mousner is one of the authors giving away a free book this week. To win a copy of BEING, check out the details here, and remember to comment, tweet, and 'like' away. The contest ends Sunday!

Happy Writing Everyone!

Overcoming Writer’s Block by Tamara Mousner

Of the many challenges writers face, nothing compares to writer’s block. It is every writer’s worst enemy because it strikes at the worst possible times and no one is immune. Since even the most prolific writers battle Writer’s Block from time to time, here are some recommendations for overcoming it:

1) Get up and move. Writing is a stationary job. Stationary activities slow blood flow, resulting in less oxygen being delivered to your brain. In order to get your blood pumping, get out of that chair and move your booty, if only for 15 or 20 minutes to rev your circulation and increase blood flow to your brain.

2) Do anything except write. Some of the best ideas I’ve ever had did not come while I was writing. For some reason, genius tends to visit while I’m disinfecting the kitchen sink or cleaning the bathroom. I don’t know why this happens, only that it does. I’m content to just go with it.

3) Get inspired. Perhaps you’ve been working too hard or putting too much pressure on yourself and that’s driving away your creativity. Writing is like the tides. There’s an ebb and flow that occurs and if you’re cranking out the work without feeding your soul, your ability to work will grind to a halt. Like our bodies, creativity must be fed, so visit a museum, attend a sporting event, watch a critically acclaimed film, read a Pulitzer Prize winning novel, or go to a park, lake or beach—whatever inspires you. Select a special activity then immerse yourself in the experience.

4) Take a fun break. Perhaps this falls under the get inspired category above, but maybe you’re stuck because you’ve been so busy working you’ve forgotten how to have fun. Allow yourself the luxury of some fun time and you’ll be amazed at how refreshed you feel when you return to your writing chair.

5) Count your blessings. Many times focusing on the things you’re grateful for is enough to grease the writing gears and get the engine moving again.

I hope you find the suggestions helpful and effective. What about you? What techniques do you use when Writer’s Block won’t get out of your way?
 
I’d love to hear from you, so please leave comments below. Wishing you only the best!

Before graduating summa cum laude from the University of Houston with a degree in Creative Writing, Tamara Mousner studied acting in Los Angeles and played a few anime characters in the English versions of Ghost Stories (Merry Mary) Gilgamesh (Azusa Madoka) Red Garden (Rachel’s Mother) Pumpkin Scissors (Solice) and the Mythical Detective Loki Ragnarok (Verdandi). She lives with her husband and two cats in Houston, Texas

To learn more about Tamara and BEING, visit her at her website, hit her up on Twitter, like her Facebook BEING Page, check out BEING on Goodreads, and of course, hop over to her Amazon page and 'like' her and get your own copy of BEING.     

Friday
Jun102011

Why I Write (Jenna Kay)

I am loving all these stories!! Here is a personal testimony by author Jenna Kay. I adore the heart she shows in this post, and boy can I ever relate to that feeling of wanting to do something just for her, on top of being the best mom and wife she can be :-)

Jenna is not only giving away a SIGNED COPY of Clarity, but signed bookmarks, too! Be sure to hop over to her Amazon page and 'like' it for two entries to win, then come back by here and let me know in the comments for a third entry! And, of course, if you tweet this post and include me (@EndingUnplanned) you get a FOURTH entry! The more posts you comment on and tweet about, the more entrires you get.  Check out the Prize Pack Giveaway: Epic List of Books Up for Grabs post for all the details!

Here's Jenna!


Writing and self-publishing is tough by themselves, but I personally think writing about myself (other than the worlds I create) is a lot tougher. So instead of harping on it I'm just going to dive in--here we go!

My name is Jenna Kay (full name Jenna Kay Armour Pridgen) and I'm the author of "Clarity", the first of five books in my Seer Society series. It's a series about a girl who learns she's a biblical Seer after she meets her guardian angel. She finds out there is an unseen war being battled all around us, the battle between good and evil over lost souls.

The most common question I get is this: Where did this all come from? Let's just say I've surprised a lot of people by publishing a book, because two and a half years ago the only things I ever read were bank statements and magazines.

First I'll give you a little peek at my life more than two years ago: A wife, homemaker, stay-at-home mama of three. No job outside the home, struggling to make ends meet. In one word I felt trapped . . . not that I don't love my hubby and kids because I do! They're my whole world! I just felt there was something else I was supposed to be doing.

So I prayed . . . and prayed . . . and prayed. I prayed for a full year nonstop, asking God to help me figure out what it was He was wanting me to do, to help me figure out what I was made for. In between all this my daddy passed away after battling lung cancer. He passed January 24th, 2009. I'm telling you that date because I feel, in some strange way, that it bares some significance to when God answered me.

April 24th, 2009, three months to the date of my daddy's passing, He answered me--I knew He wanted me to write. I was thrilled, excited, all that junk, but then I was like: So. . .what do I write?

Now that . . .  I can't really answer, only that it came to me, I wrote it down, and I'm super excited about the Seer Society's future.
Another question I get: Why self-publishing?

Well, I'm new to this game. I felt this strict urge to get it out there and fast, so self-publishing was the way to go. I'm learning (slowly) how to market it and whatnot, but if an agent comes along and is interested, I'm taking it!

Thank you for letting me share a piece of my life with you for all to see. Never in a million years did I see myself as an author, but I'm loving, loving, loving it!

My advice for those who are afraid to take a chance: Do what I did and DIVE IN!

Happy writing!
 

Jenna Kay always had a vivid imagination and one night, after waking from a dream, she started writing it all down. She grew up with three older brothers which made her a tough cookie. Jenna graduated from high school in Georgia, where she played varsity basketball. Later, Jenna obtained a cosmetology license from the State of Georgia.

Jenna was blessed with two loving parent, both that encouraged her to follow her dreams and always made sure that she made it to Church. She currently resides in North Georgia where she spends time with her three young children and her loving and extremely talented husband.

Visit Jenna at her blog, her Facebook page for Clarity, her Facebook page for the Seer Society series, and her Facebook author page.

Friday
Jun102011

Choosing To Go Indie (Trisha Wolfe)

I hope you don't mind, but I'm gonna brag for a moment. My writing sister and critique partner just inked her deal with Omnific Publishing, and I couldn't be prouder. She had a tough decision, though. She had two amazing offers -- both the smaller independent publisher, Omnific, and an offer of representation from an agent. Saying the decision was tough would be an understatement, but I think she made the perfect choice for her and her awesome story.

Since we are celebrating the non-traditional paths to publication this week, I asked her to write about her decision. I think it is a common misconception that the only reason writers would choose to go self pub or indie is because they have no other choice. Trish is here to tell us that isn't the case. They are viable options that many authors are choosing to further their goals.

Congratulations, Trish! Love you and can't wait to embark on this new journey with you. Take it away girl :-)

I’m so thrilled to be a part of Rachel’s Carving Our Own Destiny week! She’s done a phenomenal job. All the posts this week have been amazing! I’ve learned about marketing strategies, heard personal testimonies, and my to be read pile has grown. Congratulations to all the indie authors who’ve taken their own destinies into their hands.

When I first began writing seriously to get published, about two and a half years ago, I thought as soon as an agent read my query I’d be signed the next day. . . One thing I can say about rejection, we grow. We become stronger because of it. We hate getting it, but it’s an important process in becoming better writers. We HAVE to learn to accept rejection. After publication, that doesn’t stop.

Fast forward to where I am now with book number three. I began the querying process back in March, sending out batches at a time to agents. This time I knew I had THE book. This was the one the agents were going to toss their hats into the ring over. Uh, not so much.

Although one agent did make an offer—and I have to say, getting THE CALL was as nerve-wracking and exciting as I’d imagined—she wasn’t right for me at this time. We spoke for three and a half hours, and at the end of that conversation, I was very confused. See, I’d received an offer from a small publisher earlier that week. But I kept telling myself, I’ve worked for so long to get an agent, the agent is what you want. That’s the best way to get your book out there, through a bigger house. . .

The publishing world is changing people. BIG TIME. Big houses are turning down authors who have had multi book deals in the past—authors who have written amazing stories, but stories they feel they can’t place on the shelf. Agents who have been in the business for many years, made fabulous editorial connections, are finding they are turning to smaller houses to make book deals for their clients. The industry is just changing. I had to do some major soul searching to discover what was best for me and my story.

In the end, I chose to go with the publisher. Now, I’m not saying this choice is right for everyone, but you have to look at where the market is today, and where it’s heading as you’re considering. Ebooks are becoming the most popular way to read. Print books are being purchased online rather than bought in stories because bigger chains offer them at huge discounts. I honestly can’t remember the last time I walked into a book store and bought a book. I know, that’s terrible! But life is happening. Our time is consumed by our families, hobbies, work… So much of just everything, that when it comes down to buying books for the average person, it’s a matter of convenience, and also in this economy, a matter of price.

The publisher was offering me a sure contract of publication. And I feel I can grow as an author this way. I’ll have the chance to work one-on-one with an editor. I’ll work closer with a smaller press’ marketing department, and instead of my book releasing in two years, I may see it out in as little as six months.

If you’re to the point that you just can’t query any longer, but you don’t want to shelve that much beloved story you’ve slaved over, but you feel self-publishing isn’t right for you—maybe you don’t have the time to put the work in all by yourself—I’m here to tell you that there is another option. Submit to smaller houses. Yes, you will still have to market yourself. But you will have to do this any way you go. And a publishing house takes a lot of the pressure off of you to do everything alone.

My husband and I just started our own business. I was considering self-publishing, but with our savings being tied up in the new company, I wouldn’t be able to put my book out there for at least another year. If you’re in a similar financial situation, but want your book to reach more platforms than Amazon, I’d recommend ordering a copy of Writers Market. There are a TON of publishing houses listed. Also, Duotrope’s Digest has a search engine with many small publishers listed on its database. Another way is to simply check out your followers or those you follow. See who the authors list as their publishing house. Research them, see if they take unagented submissions.

But always, always make sure to check out the books the houses publish. Make sure your book fits in with their catalog. Read their guidelines and follow them. Give them as much respect when querying as you do with agents. And if accepted for publication, make sure you have your lawyer, or if you don’t have one, hire a contracts lawyer to go over the contract. In the end, make the right choice for yourself, don’t follow along with the old ways of thinking when it comes to publishing. Do what is right for YOU.

Thank you for reading my very long ramble. I hope I’ve offered something to this awesome week of indie love!

Trisha Wolfe is the author of the YA novel THE CRYSTAL PENDULUM, a Steampunk/Paranormal Romance to be published by Omnific Publishing within the next year.

She’s also the mother of a thirteen-year-old boy who serves as a sounding board for her male characters, the wife of a husband who serves as an example on what NOT to write for her character's love interests, and she’s a business owner. She’s a proud member of Kappa Delta Writer, YALITCHAT.ORG, SCWW, and the creator of the YA book blog YA Bound.

Hop over to her website to find all the ways to follow her exciting journey!

Friday
Jun102011

Let's Talk MONEY (Michelle Leighton)

Let's begin our last day of Carving Our Own Destiny with something EVERYONE wants to know, but is sometimes afraid to ask. That's right. I did it. I asked about MONEY. And the amazing Michelle Leighton stepped up and not only answered honestly, but with humor!

Michelle is also one of the authors offering a FREE Ebook up for grabs, a copy of BLOOD LIKE POISON, which will be spotlighted here shortly. In a word, this book is HOT! You want to enter for a chance at this. Check this post for details how to do it!

Here is Michelle's author page over at Amazon listing all five of her books. Remember, each 'like' on each book gets you a point in the contest!

See ya in a few hours!


The financial aspects of self-publishing your novel or, as it’s been so fondly dubbed, “going Indie”—wow! What a loaded topic. I can only speak from my personal experience, the research that I’ve done and the things I’ve heard from a few other authors, straight from the horse’s mouth so to speak. Not that I’m calling any other authors horses, mind you. All that I’ve met are lovely, delicate flowers :-)

Anyway, I digress. So, you want to know about the dough, huh? Show me the money! Is that it? Of course it is! A little bit anyway. I doubt any of us really want to do this for free. But in order to get the money, you are inevitably going to have to spend some of your own in the process. You’ve heard the expression, “you have to spend money to make money”, right? Well, that’s true in 99.9% of cases, and it’s no different with publishing your brain child for the reading pleasure of the entire world.

For this post, let’s start from the beginning. I’ll tell you stops along the way that have the potential to cost you money and I’ll tell you how I’ve done it so that, in most cases, it’s either free or extremely low cost. How ‘bout that?

Ok, so you have this novel. Let’s acknowledge for a moment that there’s no way to calculate the man hours (or woman hours) that you’ve put in, the time away from your family, the sleep you’ve lost, the elbow grease that you’ve applied to get this tome written. We’ll just call all that sweat equity. That’s part of the investment you hope to get back in the end via a little thing called “sales.”

Let’s talk about EDITING. You’ve go this novel that’s well-written, it talks about something interesting, something other people want to read about, it’s been through beta readers and critique groups and now it’s polished to a mirror-like shine. At this point, some people will go with hiring a professional editor to review their work, someone who’s experienced at kicking out plot snafus and reworking a sentence to make it flawless. That can be costly, but it’s your decision. If you’re like me, you have a trusted group of beta readers who give you such great feedback that you feel you can do without an editor until the moula starts rolling in.

Either way you go, in the end, you’ve got a perfect piece of work, or at least as perfect as it’s likely to get at the present time. Now, it’s ready to go.

Next, you must COPYRIGHT it. To have your work protected by law, it will cost you $35 to have it filed at the U.S. Copyright Office. Not a bad price for making sure that no one can steal all that you’ve stressed and emoted over, right? It’s tax deductible, too, so be sure to write it in the ledger that you’ve surely already gotten (unless you hired an accountant). This entire process takes place online and the great thing about that is that as soon as you have confirmation that your file is uploaded, you are good to go. You don’t have to wait for that nifty little piece of paper to arrive in the snail mail. Ah, the beauty of technology!

Now, by this time, you’re feeling all secure that your work is officially tucked away with the government, all safe and sound. But before you can put it out for the world to see, you have to give it some pizzazz. You know, a nice cover, maybe a book trailer, a website where people can read all about it. And depending on how you go about it, those things can cost money, in some cases lots and lots of money. I’m going to tell you how I did it and I did it at virtually no cost. Now, granted, those who paid big bucks might have a sparklier product, but mine are doing pretty well I think. Success is relative, so you might think differently. Either way, only you can decide how much money you have on hand to sink into this thing that has such great potential to earn you money. But bear in mind that the market is a fickle, fickle lady and this thing also has the potential to fall flat on its face. There’s no such thing as a “sure thing.” A “sure thing” is a “fictional thing” or publishers would only invest in those, never having to risk their money on something questionable. Wouldn’t you agree?

Here we are at COVER ART. I personally know of someone who ended up spending $300 for the front cover. It looks great by the way, but only time will tell if that investment was worth it. With most Indie books starting out at $0.99 and the author only receiving between 35 and 40% of that profit, it takes a while to make back any investment. The money appears to be in the sequels, which I will hopefully be experiencing firsthand in June. That’s when it’s more expected that your book is priced at $2.99 and your royalty shoots up to 70%. YAY!

Anyway, I went onto a site called Free Digital Photos. It costs nothing but a little credit in the front of your book to use their photos. I did my first two covers from there. If you can’t find what you’re looking for with a totally free photo, but you still don’t want to hire a professional, there are resources like iStockPhoto  and Shutterstock that have a ton more pictures and they will only cost you around $10-50 per photo. They have package deals if you know that you are going to continue to write. That’s what I did during my third month. It cost me $50 for 12 photos. At that point, I used 2 of the 12 photos to go back and change the covers of my first 2 books.

Once you have your picture picked out, you can download free fonts at Urban Fonts so that you have some nice spiffy writing to announce the clever name you’ve come up with for your novel.

Now, you’re ready for PUBLISHING to digital sites like Amazon, Smashwords and Barnes and Noble. There is no cost, just a little more nail-biting, hair loss and general aggravation. A word of advice: format your book very simply and very cleanly from the very beginning and save yourself a lot of heartache. Pretty little chapter thingees and gorgeous scene breaks will only cause you trouble. Make it simple. Make it clean. Keep it Times New Roman 12 font. Save yourself an aneurysm.

Once that’s done, you may want to publish to print. In that case, you can go another totally free route with Create Space. Now, it can be a pain if your cover art picture quality isn’t just right, but it’s not so bad. And here again, if you have the discretionary funds to pay them to do it, they’ll whip the book into shape for a fee of $299. Of course, I went the free route, though I have yet to actually put them out in print. I didn’t want to price the book at more than $8.99, but CreateSpace/Amazon assures me that the price will have to be higher just to cover the cost of producing it, so I’m holding off for a bit. I don’t want to rob my readers after all.

Now that your book is available everywhere you can make it available, you need to shout it out from the rooftops so that the world can hear and can buy. What rooftops, you ask? Virtual ones. That’s where your WEB SITE comes into play.

Here again, you can pay for something like www.Godaddy.com, which will run you anywhere from $1.99 to $39.99 depending on what you get. They help you to set it up, too. But there’s also the free method, which I took of course. I set up a blog at Blogger and did it all myself, which was super easy and kinda fun. And, most importantly, it was free.

You can MARKET from your blog or website and also by setting up an Amazon Author Central account (which is free) and accounts on sites like Goodreads, Twitter and Facebook, also free. But here again, if you have money to spend, you can pay someone to market your book (prices are extremely variable) or you can pay for ads at such places like Facebook, Goodreads and Kindle Nation. Almost everywhere that you can advertise has a variety of different packages. Personally, I did a 5-day run on FB, using Pay Per Impression and got ZERO sales from it. It cost me $25 and that is the only money, to date, that I’ve put into marketing or advertising. You can also pay for advertising on some book blogger sites. Just a few minutes of internet research will give you more information on that sort of thing than you’ll ever, ever be able to use. But it’s good to know just in case…

Lastly, there is the BOOK TRAILER. Some swear by it, some not so much. I’ve done 2 and I did them myself with the software that came on my computer. I used free songs, though I will caution you here to make sure to either get the rights to use the material or stick with ROYALTY free music, not just FREE free music. YouTube also has a list of music that’s copyright infringement-free and it just happens to also be FREE free.

My videos aren’t flashy or professional and I don’t see where they’ve brought me many, if any, sales, so these are up to you. I think they’re a pain to do, but in a way, they’re fun, too. It’s the beauty and satisfaction of creation that pleased me. I made something, actually made it, and it was pretty cool. I felt like an MTV video producer or something (I’m obviously delusional). To this day, I still watch them here on my computer, where my viewing won’t affect the official view numbers on YouTube. In the end, you might be able to get more sales and stuff if you pay someone to do it for you. I know an author who paid around $400 to have one done. Still don’t know if it’s going to pay off in sales for her.

All in all, I know one author who spent around $700 on her book, start to finish, though she still might pay for more marketing. She paid for some things, did others herself. We’ll have to wait and see if any of these authors feel like their investments paid off. In this business, only time will tell. Every day, it’s hurry up and wait with the obsessive checking of numbers in the interim. Trust me when I tell you, it’s not for the faint of heart. But, then again, if we were faint of heart, we wouldn’t be doing this to start with, right? We’re path-cutters, trend-setters, word warriors. We willingly expose our souls, our hopes, our dreams, our failures for the world to see. That, my lovelies, is anything but faint hearted. And in the end, however you choose to go with your publishing experience, it will be worth it to have your work out there, to be able to share that for which you have worked so hard with those who wish to read it. That alone is more gratifying than I can explain.

AUTHO BIO:

M. Leighton is a native of Ohio, but she relocated to the warmer climates of the South, where she can be near the water all summer and miss the snow all winter.
Possessed of an overactive imagination from early in her childhood, Michelle finally found an acceptable outlet for her fantastical visions: writing fiction.
Four of Michelle's novels can now be found on Amazon, as well as several other sites. She's currently working on sequels, though her mind continues to churn out new ideas, exciting plots and quirky characters. Pick one up and enjoy a wild ride through the twists and turns of her vivid imagination.
You can find Michelle at Facebook, her Facebook Fan Page, Twitter, Goodreads, or email.